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Question   Thursday, March 25, 2010

I have a friend who is recently divorced from his wife. While they were still together she allowed him to take nude pictures of her. He recently lost his phone, and a few days later it was returned to his mother by his EX-wife. However, her photos and others, and all email correspondence with his lawyer was removed from his phone. His ex will not tell him who gave the phone back to her. I told him to let his lawyer and the police deal with it. I feel that his EX or whoever had no right removing any photos or any other type of correspondence from his phone. Also, I feel his EX since she has a restraining order on him should not have taken his phone to begin with. Yes, I understand her probably not wanting him to have these photos of her, she could have gone about having them removed legally. Looking for another perspective.

- Ice

Ok I read this over and over again, and in this there was NO proof that the Ex-wife took the phone however, I can see that you or the parties involved would think that. Now personally I would want any pictures that my Ex had on their phone of me especially if they were nude pictures. Now as far as the rest of the information is concerned that should not have been removed and yes I would agree with you he should let the police deal with it.
- Fire



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